work with me

I welcome your vulnerable soul, my name is Sandra.

I am a Tantra Coach for your sacred embodiment of erotic rapture.

I celebrate how unique we all are! That is why I have several offers for you to choose from:

  • Discover exactly what keeps you in old patterns in life, love & relationships.

    You will have the opportunity to set new goals, experience one profound visualization and begin your journey to satisfying intimacy.

    There is no obligation to continue after one session, book at your convenience.

    (Availability for men on request)

  • Straight to the point, in 3 x 90 minutes. Do you desire a results driven deep-dive?

    In these three sessions we laser in on the one thing that you want to work on in your sexuality.

    Whether it's staying present inside your body, experiencing orgasm, authentic communication with clear boundaries, or any other challenge.

    (Availability for men on request)

  • If you're ready to go fully in and reclaim your life and sexuality from the inside out, join me for a long-term container.

    The 'Magnetic Glow' coaching package is your three (3) months intensive to establish a connection with your feminine essence in 12 sessions. You will become more aligned with your body, mind and soul.

    Prominent topics might include empowerment, inner child healing, pleasure play, energy or cervical orgasm practices, and if you wish, a deep dive into (Neo-) Tantric exercises.

    My sessions never follow a “one-size-fits-all” approach. Instead, I focus on your background, your present moment reality and, of course, your unique desired outcome.

    (Availability for men on request)

my approach

Honoring your lineage is at the heart of my coaching practice, I believe that it connects you to the spirit, science, psychology, love, and sexuality in a deep and meaningful way.

By acknowledging and embracing the wisdom of your ancestors, you can tap into the collective consciousness of those who have come before us, and use this knowledge to empower yourself and your partner(s).

As a Tantra and Embodiment Coach, I am deeply motivated to heal my female lineage, and to help others do the same.

I feel their sorrow, their resentment, and their sexual and economical suppression on a regular basis, and I am committed to using the tools of Tantra and other healing practices to liberate us from chains. 

My ancestors are always with me in a special way; guiding me, supporting me, and helping me to unlock my true potential as a sexual being.

By honoring your lineage, you can create a more loving, connected, and fulfilling world for yourself and for future generations.

Values & Beliefs

1:1 Coaching

  1. Unconditional Love flows freely to all beings, and in return, I receive infinite appreciation.

  2. Trust in the great Unknown. Life guides me and shows me the next steps on my path. I teach and practice surrender when it is safe to do so.

  3. Honesty means authentic communication with a pure connection to my Truth. I share from the depths of my emotional ocean within.

  4. Compassion for all the beautiful souls who find their way to my coaching business. I respect their hardships and struggles. My intuitive guidance allows them to recognize the blessings of their difficult experiences. Transformation happens.

  5. Empowerment of the sacred feminine essence. Each client can discover the abundant power of tantric intimacy, and should they choose to open up, I am committed to leading them into new realms of bliss with great care.

My 5 Core Messages

I firmly believe that women and men will rise together. Therefore, I offer 1:1 coaching programs for all genders.

Coaching Container

Tantra encompasses more than just sexuality, yet it is often misunderstood in this regard.

Authenticity is at the core of Tantra, giving individuals the freedom to express themselves in their entirety.

Many spiritual practices emphasize that one's consciousness, not their physical body, defines who they are. While Tantra acknowledges this non-dualistic perspective, it also honors the relational dual realm of existence. Rather than shaming our humanity, Tantra celebrates it.

As a divine being having a human experience, every aspect of ourselves - our body, sexuality, emotions, thoughts, and desires - is sacred.

Here is a quote I particularly enjoy:

"The tantric path is the easiest path to misunderstand because it cannot be followed with the mind, but only with the heart. It takes a certain degree of madness in a person to follow this path, uncharted as it is. It is the path of the poetic soul — the lover of wildness, of spontaneity, of paradox — the lover of the moment."

—Richard Rudd

Clarity and transparency

Classical Tantra is a traditional spiritual practice originating in ancient India, focused on the union of the individual soul with the universal consciousness through practices such as meditation, yoga, and ritual. I practice this form of Tantra myself.

Neo Tantra, on the other hand, is a modernized version of Tantra that places greater emphasis on sexual energy as a means of spiritual growth and personal transformation, often incorporating practices such as conscious sexuality, sexual healing, and erotic massage. I teach this form of Tantra in my virtual client sessions and during live retreats.

MY Lineage, Teachers & Guides

I have spent hundreds of hours in trainings, retreats and education over the years. Add to that thousands of hours of inner work. I am an Ayurveda practitioner, and a Jyotishi (Vedic astrology student).

My trainings include VITA Coaching Certification for Love, Sex and Relationships, as well as the Tao-Shamanic Priestess Training.

I weave Taoist - Tantric philosophy and practices into my work, but I'm not a spiritual leader of those lineages.

My teachers include (but are certainly not limited to) Mantak Chia, Minke de Vos, Margot Anand, Layla Martin, Sally Kempton and Shashi SolLuna for Tantric and Tao-Shamanic transmissions.

For traditional Indian astrology (Jyotish) I study under Margaret Mahan and her lineage, Dr. Andrew Foss at BAVA, and Dr. Robert Svoboda.

In my Ayurveda practice I owe everything I know to Dr. Vasant Lad, Dr. Robert Svoboda and the fantastic team at Vaidyagrama in India, including Dr. Ramadas, Dr. Harikumar, Dr. Ramanandan.

I believe it is important to honor and mention the traditions I am pulling wisdom from.

Besides that, I am reclaiming my European roots with our history of Witches, herbalists, Priestesses.

shining a light on tantra

  • <autoplay speed=6></autoplay> "This has been one of the most profound experiences I've had working with a sex coach in online sessions! Sandra's guidance was gentle and attentive."

    — Ann L.

  • "I came with heavy baggage because of my past of sexual trauma. Sandra and I had an introductory conversation and she decided against working with me because my scars belong in professional hands. I thought that was strong of her as she knows her own limitations! My trust is strong even though I don't know her 1:1 sessions."

    — Anonymous

  • "I've loved working with Sandra! Her approach to productivity and the female cycle have been completely life-changing. She recommended many practical exercises."

    —Nicole H.

Three easy steps to work with me

  • Remember

    We humans are sensual and sexual beings, from the first to the last breath. I would like to guide you to remember this truth.

  • Book a Call

    My free “Soul Connection” call puts you first. Ask your questions, and get to know me. The intention is for you to listen to your inner voice.

    Here you will find out if we are a good fit for a coaching relationship.

  • Start the Healing

    Choose either an individual session or a package plan, depending on how much intensive work you want.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • No, prior experience is not necessary. My coaching program is designed to meet you where you are and support you in developing your skills and knowledge at your own pace.

  • We meet online in 1:1 private session via Zoom video conference. One appointment per week is recommended, for 12 consecutive weeks.

    However, life does not always play along, and there is no time limit for completion.

  • The program is designed to respect and honor your individual circumstances. My calendar has many different suggested appointments and you may book each session yourself.

  • If you have chosen to have coaching sessions with me, there is currently no way to ask for your money back.

    However, you will not regret it, I promise! As long as you follow along and hold your intention, you will have fantastic success.

  • Absolutely! I’ll teach you how to leverage your own desires and work with your partners needs simultaneously. My coaching program is suitable for individuals in all stages of relationship.

  • No, I am not a licensed psychologist or medical doctor. What I offer is inspiration and guidance for my clients, drawing on my trainings and experiences in Tantra and sexology.

    It is important to note that my coaching is not legal or health advice, and should not be used as a substitute for professional psychological care.

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